SEXY IS
To my Ladies who are looking to step into their sexy and live in it…..
Sexy is an energy…an attitude you project out onto the world…Sexy is not the way you dress/undress or the way your body is shaped…Its not determined by how much attention you receive it is in the way you carry and project yourself and any woman can be sexy by tapping into her sexual energy….first and foremost she is going to have to look in the mirror and see/feel the sexy in herself…if she can turn herself on and bask in her own beauty and feminine energy she will never have to worry about whether a man or others will or not..sexy is an attractive energy and people are drawn to it…its mesmerizing and sensual and the energy is being transferred to others and they pick up on it…you are always sharing your energy with others whether you realize it or not and it doesn’t have to include any physical interaction to be received..so you can relax and not be paranoid that to be sexy means you have to share your body with any and everybody or try to stop men from wanting to feel you…give them your energy and let them experience something more than just physical…many men don’t get a chance to feel anything outside of physical sex to know there is so much more to a woman than just body parts and many women think being sexy is being available to men to object them as just body parts, alot of women don’t feel “sexy” until she gets male attention so she purposely wants her physical self on display to get the attention so she can feel desired, which is more just ego feeding than anything else…so already the flow is off and the energy she is in is one of insecurity that needs validation from males…show the man the whole of you as a woman….the energy comes from you and when it comes from a place of security, of confidence, of self love, of wholeness it transcends the physical within it so people can see more, feel more, experience something deeper than what they think sexuality or the woman is about….and it can be expressed in this physical world, in a physical body without hiding it, rejecting it, repressing it or being overpowered by it
Enjoy the energy I share with you all 
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I agree with all that you are saying however how can you get the women who don’t look like you, who have not had the successful experiences that you have had and are having. The ones who look at you and see men’s responses to your outer and inner sexiness and say “that’s easy for her to say” how do you bring those sisters along?
I agree with this. It takes a certain level of growth and maturity to realize sexy comes from much more than the physical.