BE SEXUAL
I use the word sexual alot and as I tapped on briefly before one of the main fears women associate with allowing themselves to step into their sexual energy is that they will start wanting to have sex with any and everybody….Especially since alot of us women who claim to be sexually liberated are really on the opposite side of the coin from over repression to over expression in ways that result in more unhealthy behaviors and associate it with having sex with just anybody…..now of course a woman in her sexual energy with a healthy attitude may just explore her sexuality through sex with different partners, but you can tell which women are operating from a healthy mindstate vs a destructive one..some women in a unhealthy mindset are that way because they buy into the whole “bad girl” “slut” “whore” mentality that has been associated and stigmatized to women who are sexually “free”, som…….thats a topic for another blog however
As I mentioned in the video sexual is a word I will tend to use alot and I refer to sexual energy….this is your life energy, its not just the energy to have sex, its the energy to live, to be passionate, to be inspired and motivated to create and nurture in every facet of life….its the energy you are in to create your reality the way you want…..just because you perform the physical act with another person doesn’t necessarily make you sexual or sexy or open to that part of yourself…one of the main reasons so many men and women are so dissatisfied in it and keep searching for fulfillment in their actual physical sexual lives and in their lives in general
“Sexual energy gives us the power of creation, stimulating our creative inner genius, igniting passion for life and living. Use sexual transmutation to infuse your life with sexual energy and let it fill your life with passion.”
Sexual energy can be transmuted into energy that is beneficial to every aspect of our lives, not just with relationships or physical contact with others…..and for so many of us not fully experiencing the physical aspect of sexual encounters with others, being in this energy opens one up to true bliss vs instant gratification that last for a few minutes after release or encounters that leave us feeling empty and drained afterwards vs energized and full of life
Another fear of women is that if they step into their sexual energy they will attract rapists and men who will want to take them against their will because they are so sexual…..rapist and sexual predators are driven by guilt, lack of love and fear around sexuality…..they are not attracted to those in a positive life affirming energy of sexuality, they can’t feed off of it…..Even our children and babies are engulfed in the guilt and fear of sexuality and are being taken out of their natural sexual selves into the fearful states of their sexual selves from as early as they are being told how “wrong” and bad it is to explore, ask about, exhibit or see anything of sexual nature from the negative outlooks many adults have on it …. and they are targets of some people who feel extreme guilt around sexuality especially because we tend to associate children with innocence….most of us operate trying to extract something from others because we feel we don’t have and always have to get…most of us in relationships are trying to “get” something from somebody else, and some sexual predators of young children tend to want to extract the innocence from children…getting their innocence may make us less guilty…sounds logical in a disarrayed mind
I remember my dad telling me when I was a around 16 that if i ever was in a situation where somebody was trying to rape me to just let them do it, don’t fight, don’t resist…tell them they can have it vs them thinking they are taking…don’t feed into the fear they are trying to invoke out of you….now I may have given him the side eye to this piece of advice and been like that has to be waaaaayyyyy easier said than done had I not been in a situation of a older male trying to force himself on me when I was 14 and I did just that…I told him I wasn’t scared of him and he could have it if its this serious to be going through all of this and it worked….again…another blog
Coming back again to the be sexual topic of this blog, its simply to embrace life, embrace the self….everything is sexual in nature….and its natural and a beautiful thing and we have managed to make it into something ugly and negative that has alot of us in hellish states and expressing “ugly” and “destructive behaviors around it…and we are all a collective…what affects one of us affects us all to some degree or another….sexual abuse, sexual assault, sexual traumas are all around us affecting alot of us real close to home if not personally…each one of us that can step into it and see the beautiful, natural, spiritual energy it truly is makes a huge difference on the collective, and our behaviors and attitudes around it will change to reflect this energy in a healthy positive manner that not only enlivens us individually but every one around us instead of causing us to hurt others and ourselves around it
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I agree Crak….I will definitely have to incorporate the love aspect of life into the sexual aspect….thanks for bringing that up and thanks for the drop
I agree…being passionate about something..loving to do what you do is a beautiful thing…and to make money doing it….can’t beat it
another aspect of sexual energy is loving, i read a quote recently about love by bruce lee,
“Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable.”
you over looked that aspect but you did touch on passion, benjamin franklin was a freak, he was supposed to be into orgies and alot of baby mama’s
living life, embracing the spectrum of what the world has to offer, you should recognize your passionate and emotional essence,
im trying make you better, behind every great author, there is a good editor, that quote popped in my mind
but every person who was great was passionate about there art, they lived their work, like teh 10,000 hours thing, in order to put in that much work you need to be dedicated, there was a picasso story i read
There’s a great story about Pablo Picasso. Some guy told Picasso he’d pay him to draw a picture on a napkin. Picasso whipped out a pen and banged out a sketch, handed it to the guy, and said, “One million dollars, please.”
“A million dollars?” the guy exclaimed. “That only took you thirty seconds!”
“Yes,” said Picasso. “But it took me fifty years to learn how to draw that in thirty seconds.”
well the moral of the story, was he spent 50 years praciting his art form, the passion and dedication shows a love for what he does, end of story, lol,
@ Keith: look at the root word of sensuality, it’s not sex it’s sense as in our 5 senses (like Tiara pointed out); sound, sight, smell, taste, & touch. BTW, the act of sex is one of the few activities that all the senses are brought into play creating the totality of the experience. Keep in mind it’s how our mind interprets what the body senses that becomes our reality & thus sex is mostly mental (as is all of our reality as it’s how we interpret what we experience). Therefore sensuality is also very relative from one person (’s perception) to another. i.e. the smell of turkey on Thanksgiving can make one person feel special as it reminds them of great times had with family while another will feel dread remembering how that creepy uncle always made her feel after he molested her… same smell, turkey, different relationships to it.
balance is the key… i.e. just b.e. = balancing energy/existence
RE: “Sexual energy gives us the power of creation, stimulating our creative inner genius, igniting passion for life and living. Use sexual transmutation to infuse your life with sexual energy and let it fill your life with passion.” & “Sexual energy can be transmuted into energy that is beneficial to every aspect of our lives, not just with relationships or physical contact with others…” – Physical sexual energy (the act of having sex) can create a physical life, however it’s creative in nature; physically, emotionally, mentally & spiritually (various densities of the same energy that is who we are). Hence #3 of my ‘What I will (to) Experience With The Female Mutual Partner(s) in Life’ is “We sexually satisfy each other & use the arousal of our life force to achieve whatever we both will our mind to manifest”.
also “embrace life, embrace the self….everything is sexual in nature….and its natural and a beautiful thing and we have managed to make it into something ugly and negative that has alot of us in hellish states and expressing “ugly” and “destructive behaviors around it…and we are all a collective…what affects one of us affects us all to some degree or another….” great point & part of what I wish to communicate with that project I mentioned to you!
~ stay lovely!
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So sensuality could be one form of a physical manifestation of inner sexuality life force?
I look forward to the vid
THanks for bringing that up, definitely another topic to talk about….sexual energy is your life energy your sensuality has to do with all the senses and fully being in them…..to touch, smell, feel, hear, see…..sensual is about feeling and picking up on life, and we can definitely sense sexual energy with our physical senses along with our energetic sense of it…we know it when we sense it any way…whether is through visual, a touch, a smell…etc….will go more into it on a video
I am feeling what you are saying as far as the energy is going. I am having difficulty distinguishing between what you said and sensual energy.